Recently, I sat down with my good friend Rich Somers on The Rich Somers Report to talk about the journey from selling phones at a mall kiosk to building one of the fastest-growing real estate brokerages in the country. We went deep on what it really takes to grow a business, build a brand, and create long-term wealth in real estate. What follows are 10 of the biggest lessons from that conversation—plus the real-world takeaways you can use to level up your own business starting today.
Watch the interview here:
We outlined the 10 Rules That Built a $1B Brokerage.
Read on…
If you told 20-year-old me, grinding cell phone sales at a mall kiosk, that one day I’d co-found a real estate brokerage ranked Top 100 in the U.S., with over 1,400 agents and eight-time recognition on the Inc. 5000… I probably would’ve laughed and handed you a free phone case to close the deal.
But that’s exactly what happened.
The journey from kiosk hustler to building a billion-dollar real estate empire wasn’t magic. It wasn’t luck. It was systems, strategy, and ridiculous consistency.
Recently, I jumped on The Rich Somers Report to unpack how I did it, and more importantly, how you can use these same principles to grow your business, build your brand, and buy back your time.
This isn’t theory. It’s 20 years of wins, losses, pivots, and playbooks. If you’re serious about building something real, here are 10 takeaways you can steal and implement starting now…
1. Sell Something, Then Sell Something Expensive
My first real job was selling phones in the middle of the mall. No leads. No warm intros. Just cold eye contact, confidence, and closing strangers in the wild. That environment forces you to learn fast. You learn how to start conversations, how to handle rejection, how to ask for the sale, and how to keep moving when someone tells you no.
Once I realized I could sell, the next thought was simple, if I am going to put in this much effort, I should sell something that actually moves the needle financially. That mindset led me straight into real estate, where one deal can change your year instead of just your afternoon.
Takeaway: Learn sales in any environment you can. Then move into higher ticket products or services where the same skills produce exponentially better results.
2. Pivot Fast When the Market Shifts
I got licensed in 2005, right before the market crashed. When everything started falling apart, we could have waited for things to get better. Instead, we leaned into short sales, which were painful, complicated, and slow, but they were where the demand was.
While others were complaining, we were building systems, learning bank processes, and doing hundreds of transactions. That experience didn’t just help us survive, it positioned us to grow when the market recovered.
Takeaway: Every market shift creates winners and losers. The winners adapt early, build new skills, and move toward the opportunity instead of away from the discomfort.
3. Consistency Is the Ultimate Brand Hack
People think branding is about logos and colors. It is not. Branding is about repetition. It is about showing up so often that people feel like they know you, even if they have never spoken to you.
Weekly emails. Daily social posts. Monthly events. Podcasts. Newsletters. It all works, but only if you stay consistent long enough for the market to recognize you.
Most people quit after 60 days because they do not see immediate results. The real momentum shows up around month six, seven, and eight.
Takeaway: Pick one or two platforms and commit for a full year. Same day, same time, every week. Let consistency do the heavy lifting.
4. Your Database Is a Goldmine If You Actually Work It
Most agents spend all their time chasing new leads while ignoring the people who already trust them. Meanwhile, past clients forget their agent’s name within a year because there is no follow up.
Staying in touch does not need to be complicated. Short videos. Simple check in texts. Market updates. Birthday messages. Holiday cards. These little touches compound over time and keep you top of mind.
That is why we built Referral Suite, to automate those touches so agents can stay consistent without it becoming another full time job.
Takeaway: Build systems that keep you in front of your database automatically. Relationships drive repeat and referral business, not ads.
5. Stop Splitting Commissions If You Are Not Getting Real Value
Commission splits only make sense if the brokerage is actively helping you grow. That means coaching, systems, leads, accountability, and real support.
If you are giving away 30 or 40 percent of every deal and not getting measurable growth in return, that is not mentorship, that is just expensive rent.
Our model at Big Block was designed to flip that equation, keep agent overhead low while giving strong backend support so agents can reinvest in marketing, staff, and growth.
Takeaway: Regularly audit what you are paying versus what you are receiving. Every dollar you save can be reinvested into scaling your business.
6. Own the Dirt
Selling real estate pays the bills. Owning real estate builds freedom.
Every agent should be using their income and their access to deals to build a personal portfolio. That might be a duplex, a short term rental, a small multifamily, or a value add single family property.
Over time, appreciation, tax benefits, and cash flow compound in ways commissions never can.
Takeaway: Treat commissions as fuel, not as lifestyle money. Reinvest into assets that pay you when you stop working.
7. Partnerships Only Work if You Stay in Your Lane
My partnership with Sam works because we do not overlap. He focuses on vision, sales, and growth. I focus on operations, systems, and execution. We trust each other and we stay in our strengths.
Most partnerships fail because both partners want to control the same parts of the business or because expectations are never clearly defined.
Takeaway: Choose partners based on complementary skill sets, not just friendship. Define roles early and protect them.
8. Systematize Everything or Stay Stuck in the Weeds
If you are the bottleneck in your business, growth will always be limited. Systems remove decision fatigue, reduce errors, and allow teams to operate without constant supervision.
This applies to marketing, onboarding, transactions, accounting, and compliance. Every process that repeats should be documented and automated as much as possible.
That is how you scale without burning out.
Takeaway: If you do something more than twice, build a system for it. Your future self will thank you.
9. Focus Beats Opportunity
There are endless ways to make money in real estate. The problem is not lack of opportunity, it is lack of focus.
The most successful investors and agents I know went deep into one strategy before expanding. They mastered their niche, built teams, and refined systems before chasing the next shiny object.
Takeaway: Pick a strategy that fits your skills and market, then commit long enough to get really good at it before pivoting.
10. Bet on Brand, Because It Pays You Forever
Brand compounds. Deals come easier. Recruiting gets easier. Partnerships show up. Opportunities find you.
When people trust your name, business becomes less transactional and more relational. That is when leverage really starts to work in your favor.
Brand is built through value, visibility, and consistency over time.
Takeaway: Invest in your personal and business brand daily, even when you do not immediately see returns. It is one of the highest ROI assets you will ever build.
The Bottom Line, Be Consistent. Be Creative. Be Relentless.
There is no secret formula. Just simple strategies executed over a long period of time with discipline and adaptability.
Markets change. Technology changes. Strategies change. But the fundamentals do not.
Show up. Solve problems. Build relationships. Keep improving your systems.
Do that long enough… and you will look up one day and realize you built something that most people only talk about.
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